How To Keep Your Weight Loss Motivation
When it comes to weight loss motivation, it is something that a lot of people feel they have lost. Whether it is down the back of the sofa, or dropped in the street, the motivation just isn't there to lose weight.
So how can you find this motivation again and lose weight?
The first step is to make sure you have targeted goals. As a hypnotherapist I see a lot of clients for weight loss and they all say, "I'm trying to lose some weight, can you help me."
Instantly, I know they are struggling and their chances of succeeding on their diet are slim.
How?
Because they are "trying to lose SOME weight". Tell me, what is some weight? Some weight is a pound, some weight is an ounce, some weight is 100 pounds! Some weight is an indefinable quantity that you are not really sure about.
When you are dieting, you have little weight loss motivation because sub-consciously, you do not know where you are going to end up with your weight loss program. All you know is that you are going to lose "SOME" weight. So if you diet for a bit and then find yourself a pound lighter ... CONGRATULATIONS! You've lost SOME weight.
Yeah sure, it's not what you really had in mind, I'm pretty sure you wanted to lose more than a pound, but sub-consciously - you've achieved your goal, so congratulations ... and back to eating you go.
When you are dieting it is absolutely vital that you know exactly how much weight you need to lose. This will provide you with weight loss motivation and the keys to success. If you know exactly how much you are getting rid of then
1) You know what you are aiming for
2) You know when you have got there
3) There is no confusion between your conscious and sub-conscious minds
4) You can stay motivated as you progress towards your weight loss target
Now, this may sound to you like it is very simplistic and silly and that "it's far too childish to work" (as a client said to me). But ... and let me just say that again in capital letters, BUT it works ... why does it work Jason? You may ask ... It works because your sub-conscious mind is like a child! It is very simple, very honest and without guile.
So play this childish game with yourself, put your weight loss goals own on paper and find your weight loss motivation.
The Top 7 Weight Loss Tips
When dieting, weight loss motivation can be a bit elusive. The constant cycle of putting on weight, losing weight, putting on weight and losing weight can become tiresome and demotivating.
The following tips come from my courses and seminars to help you get rid of weight and find that weight loss motivation.
Tip 1 - Know what you want
Make sure you know exactly how much weight you want to get rid of. Some weight just doesn't cut it, so have an exact figure of what your target weight is and how much you are losing.
Tip 2 - Stay off the scales
Don't weigh yourself every day, it'll dent your weight loss motivation and frustrate you. Instead, pick one day a week when you are going to weigh yourself and weigh yourself every day at the same time (I usually recommend Monday's as you may be at your heaviest after the weekends excesses!).
Tip 3 - Measure yourself
Often weight loss isn't immediately noticeable through weight, but is more obvious through inches lost. so, measure your chest, waist, hips and thighs and record the results.
Tip 4 - Track your progress
Motivation comes from seeing results, so track your weight loss and your measurements shrinking and you will find yourself being more motivated to lose weight.
Tip 5 - Eat regularly
Most dieters think that by skipping meals they are going to lose weight quickly. NO! It doesn't work like that. If you skip meals then your body starts to think there's a famine coming, which means your body piles on the fat to survive the famine. Eat regular meals.
Tip 6 - Don't Deny Yourself
Many dieters will deny themselves anything naughty such as chocolate, cakes and so on. Trouble is, when you deny yourself something, you want it more. So instead CHOOSE not to have it, because then you are in control. Occasionally, you may choose to have it, which is great too.
Tip 7 - Drink, drink, drink
And no, I don't mean alcohol. I mean yummy, delicious water. Drink plenty of it as it will flush toxins from your system and help keep you healthy. The experts recommend that you should drink at least 2 liters (just over 4 pints) of water every single day. Avoid caffeinated drinks and fizzy soda’s as these don’t help quench your thirst or remove the toxins from your system.
These seven tips for weight loss motivation and success will help you to rapidly lose weight with the minimum of trouble.
Is It Possible For Easy Weight Loss
Is it really possible for weight loss to be easy?
The diet industry portrays that diets are a breeze, easy as pie, just eat our lovely (and expensive) products and spend lots of money and you will be as skinny as the skinny models who advertise our product yet have never used them.
Yet in spite of this, the vast majority of people see dieting as a struggle (struggling to lose weight), a battle (battling to lose weight), a fight (fighting to lose weight) and generally a hardship.
Easy weight loss is entirely possible if you adopt the right mental attitude. Weight loss is all about having motivation, and what is motivation except reasons to lose weight.
So, what are your reasons for losing weight?
Do you want to be thinner because your friends are? Do you want to be thinner because you feel people will like you more? Or you'll like yourself more? Do you want to be thinner for health reasons?
There are a lot of potential reasons for losing weight, and if your reasons are powerful and motivating enough there is nothing else you can do except lose weight easily. Just what are your personal reasons for losing weight? Have a think about them now and decide if they are motivating enough.
You're now probably wondering what on earth this right mental attitude for easy weight loss is, so let me tell you now exactly what it is.
Number 1 : Believe that you can succeed. You would be shocked to find how many people do not believe they can successfully diet and attain (and maintain) their desired target weight. Believe you can succeed, and believe it strongly - your beliefs create the world around you and whether you believe you can or can't, you're right.
Number 2 : Be realistic. It's lovely for us all to have those pleasant day dreams, but be realistic. Don't think you can magically lose a hundred pounds in a week ... it's not physically possible, and losing too much weight too quickly is bad for your health. Be realistic about what you are aiming for and when you will do it.
Number 3 : Believe that you are a thinner person. People will have their identity tied up with their weight, and people will do almost anything to protect their identity, even kill. Is your identity one of a struggling dieter? Or an overweight person? Or a fat slob? What is your identity with relation to your weight? If it is negative and involves you being anywhere other than your target weight, then you need to change it!
Number 4 : Believer that you are worthy of being a thinner person. If you are caught up in self loathing and really dislike yourself you may not think you are worth losing weight and being at your ideal weight. You will find yourself struggling and sabotaging your efforts, so believe you are worthy of this success.
Number 5 : Now this is the one that eludes all but the most successful dieters. Take REGULAR and CONSISTENT action. That's all it takes. Easy weight loss comes from taking consistent action every single day both mentally and physically. Thinking you want to be thin whilst eating pizza in front of the television isn't going to work. You have to combine thought with action to create results.
So now you know how easy weight loss really is when you have the right mental attitude. Study these five keys and use them to make your weight loss easy.
The Diet Industry Doesn’t Care If You Lose Weight!
In the Western cultures, we are bombarded by advert after advert promoting this healthy eating food, or this gym, or that celebrity’s new fitness video / diet program / recipe book / miracle weight loss program. The images are everywhere, together with a press that extols the virtues of being so thin you look ill.
"Weight Loss Help" is at hand, bleats the diet industry, "Just buy our product" ... but does the diet industry have your best interests at heart?
The simple answer is a highly resounding NO, they do not.
They have only one interest, and that is money. Money to make profits, to pay their shareholders. The diet industry has minimal interest in you losing weight and ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST in you keeping the weight off. Just think about it. If people actually lost weight using their products and kept it off, what would happen to their profits and business? It would be decimated!
The diet industry needs dieters to keep buying and consuming their products so they can make fat profits to pay their shareholders with.
The real problem with the diet industry is that in order to make maximum profits they need to cut their costs down to a bare minimum. And they do this by padding out food with fillers and cheap components.
One of the first things to go in diet products is sugar. Refined sugars are bad for us, which is perfectly true, they are. However, instead of putting in a decent, healthy alternative (such as Stevia) the diet industries put in artificial sweeteners such as Aspartame.
Now, you may say, "But it's not sugar so it's healthier" or "It's FDA approved" or any other pre-programmed component. Let me tell you what aspartame is - it's a neuro-toxin, plain and simple. To make this even easier to understand - it kills your brain! It's dangerous! Aspartame is already banned in numerous countries with many more considering a ban, yet it still appears in diet foods particularly in the USA and UK.
Even worse, aspartame will actually sabotage your diet as it seems to make people crave carbohydrates. If you are dieting and are after weight loss help then avoid aspartame.
One of the big diet industry fillers is wheat. The diet industry love padding out food with wheat protein because it is cheap! And cheap means more profit! An awful lot of people have a wheat intolerance to some degree, and this tends to cause bloating and the feeling of being fat, which doesn't help your diet and doesn't help you feel any thinner.
So all in all, the diet industry doesn't have your best interests at heart. They want to you stay miserable and fat because then you contribute more to their profits!
What can you do to get weight loss help? Learn about eating a healthy, balanced diet and you will find that you do not need to rely on the diet industry's weight loss products, but can eat a much healthier diet much cheaper that is much more effective in helping you to lose weight.
Don't believe a word I am saying here about these fillers, please, I implore you. Go do your research online and see the truth for yourself as you get your weight loss help.
The Minefield That Is Online Weight Loss
Weight Loss Online is a minefield for anyone serious about weight loss. There are snake oil salesmen, peddlers of poor quality products, and of course those people out to make a quick buck from a desperate dieter.
What many of these online weight loss "experts" rely on is the fact that 95% of dieters will buy a diet program, open the front cover, see it's BIG and involves work and then give up. Really, how many diet books, exercise video's and pieces of exercise equipment do you have around your house ... and how many of those have you actually used (and used consistently).
There are a lot of online weight loss programs all promising instant weight loss, rapid weight loss and lots of other wild claims.
I can highly recommend choosing an online weight loss program because there are some great ones out there. When you are choosing your weight loss program, bear in mind a few things.
What is the guarantee of the program you are looking at? Do they offer you a 7, 14, 30, 90 day guarantee or longer? The longer the guarantee the more chance you have to test the program thoroughly to make sure it works. However, check the fine print of the guarantee. Some of these programs have a lot of weasel clauses in them designed to make it difficult for you to return the product and get your money back. Look for a guarantee that is completely unconditional and you know you are safe.
If the program is purchased through Clickbank or Paypal then you know you are safe because Clickbank has an 8 week money back guarantee which it forces all merchants to comply with. In fact, you can contact Clickbank direct for your refund without involving the merchant. Paypal is also very protective of its customers, and whilst it doesn't force a guarantee on its merchants, it will investigate claims about products not being as described.
EBay is another source of diet and weight loss programs. However, this is an even bigger minefield. Whilst eBay is an excellent marketplace, it is unfortunately frequented by scammers and conmen selling pirated and illegal products, particularly if you are buying supplements or physical programs. Always check out a sellers feedback and make sure there is a lot of positives there - and check what they are for! A lot of sellers will buy 1c or $1 auctions to get lots of positive feedback in order to lool better as a seller. Make sure the positive feedback is for the product you are buying.
Check how long they have been on eBay too. If they are a new seller then there is more of a chance of them not being 100% honest. However, if they have been there for years and have lots of positive feedback then you know they are much more likely to be honest. Ebay is a fantastic marketplace, but just like a real marketplace, you, as the buyer, need to have your wits about you.
There are some excellent online weight loss programs that come highly recommended, so be diligent in your selection of one and you can find yourself getting rid of that weight and being your ideal weight.
Online Weight Loss Books – Do They Really Work?
Perhaps one of the biggest concerns people have over online weight loss is whether these online diet books actually work.
To be honest the answer is exactly the same as it is for offline books. Some will work for some people, some will work for others, and some won’t work at all.
It is actually extremely difficult to predict if a diet book will or will not work. I’ll talk about some tips you can use here for making sure that the program you are looking for actually works or not. Though please do remember that online weight loss programs can work just as well, if not better, than offline programs. They can work better because sometimes they include additional bonuses like meal planners, or hypnosis CD’s, which really can help you get the most from the weight loss program.
When you are looking at an online weight loss program, it is always good to look at the testimonials for the product. Sometimes these are not 100% genuine, i.e. they are requested from people who have reviewed the product. If the testimonials include before and after pictures then you can feel much better about the product.
You need to also remember that books are often researched and ghostwritten by another person. The diet programs that are actually written by someone who has used it to lose weight and keep it off are often the best of the bunch. This is because you are not dealing with a business person who has had a book written, but a real person who has been in the situation you are in and have successfully lost weight.
One of the best things about online weight loss programs is that they usually come with a money back guarantee. This allows you to test out a program safe in the knowledge that you are covered by the guarantee and if the program isn’t what it appeared to be then you can get a refund.
The weight loss industry is a massive multi-billion dollar industry and every celebrity has their own diet program. It’s important for you to remember that diets are different for every single person. What works for one person may not work for the next.
The real reason that any diet program works is because you, the dieter, are motivated to get rid of weight and take regular and consistent action. Whatever online weight loss program you choose to work with, make sure you take this regular and consistent action, and you will not only get rid of your excess weight, but also keep the weight off permanently.
3D Weight Loss
If I ask you know how much weight you want to lose, can you tell me?
Or are you going to say “Some weight”, which is what most dieters will say.
Ok, so when are you going to have that weight gone by?
If like most people you will answer “some time” or not have a definitive date.
So when is this some time? And what on earth is this some weight huh? Do you know? I bet you don’t. And if you don’t know, how are you ever going to know if you’ve got there and got rid of the weight?
Having worked with hundreds of weight loss clients in my clinical hypnosis practice, I quickly discovered that people with specific weight loss goals were the people who succeeded with the least amount of struggling.
How much weight do you want to lose? Think about it right now and write it down somewhere if necessary. Get an exact figure in your mind. Remember that some weight is a completely useless goal, as is a few pounds, a few stone, a few kilograms. The figure has to be precise. Know exactly what your target weight is and subtract it from your current weight. Then you know exactly how much you need to get rid of.
Once you know how much weight you want to lose, your next step is to work out when you want to lose the weight by.
This is another place where dieters make a simple mistake. They don’t have a target date for achieving their weight loss goals, or if they do the dates are so unrealistic the only way to achieve them is through losing a limb!
Next decide exactly when you want to lose this weight by. What date (and some rough date is NOT good enough) do you want to be your target weight? Set a precise date like 31st December 2007.
Now you have your target date for being your ideal weight and how much weight you want to have got rid of by then. Work out how many months and weeks are between now and your target date. Then calculate how much weight you need to lose each week and month.
For example, if you have 6 months between now and your target date and have 30 pounds to lose in that time, it works out as losing 5 pounds a month, or a little over a pound a week, which is entirely achievable.
In summary:
1) Determine how much weight you want to lose / what your target weight is
2) Decide when you want to have got rid of this weight, i.e. your target date (and made sure it is feasible)
3) Divide up the weight by the time to get how much weight to lose each week and month
Following these 3 D’s will ensure that you achieve your weight loss goals.
Visualization For Weight Loss Success
The mental process behind dieting and weight loss is as important, if not more important, than the actual eating and dieting part of the process. The reason being that everything comes from your thoughts and without the right thoughts, the right action and results can never manifest.
Visualization is a very powerful tool in creating the correct mindset for permanent weight loss, but one that is rarely used by dieters to help their weight loss. In fact, most dieters DO use visualization, but they use it to visualize themselves struggling and failing at their diet whilst being miserable.
And guess what … these dieters are miserable and unhappy on their diets because they have made the whole weight loss process painful and more difficult than it really needs to be.
Your mind is an incredibly powerful device that scientists are still learning about and understanding. Currently there is a lot of research into the power of the mind and visualization, particularly in relation to enhancing sports and business performance.
Visualization is, in its simplest form, where you imagine in your mind yourself doing something. It can also be called Mental Rehearsal, and is used by sales professionals and speakers before they perform.
Applying this technique to weight loss is very simple. Imagine yourself at your ideal weight and size. See the picture of yourself in your mind, but don’t see it as if you are watching someone else, see it as if you were seeing it from your own eyes, e.g. see yourself in a mirror.
As well as seeing yourself, feel the feelings of being your idea weight and size. Feel how good it is, how much you enjoy it and how great it is to be this ideal weight. Maybe feel and see yourself fitting into new clothing, receiving admiring looks or whatever it takes to help you feel fantastic about being your ideal weight.
Whilst visualizing, feel how easy and effortless it was to achieve your ideal weight. Doing this will take you away from that painful dieting mindset, which does you no good at all.
By visualizing yourself at your ideal weight in an associated (i.e. through your own eyes) state you are programming yourself to be that weight. You will find that unconsciously you begin to eat less, exercise more and look after yourself just from visualizing yourself at your ideal weight.
Visualization is an incredibly powerful tool that will help you with your weight loss program. Use it to help you effortlessly lose weight and enjoy life at your ideal size.
Does It Work - Weight Loss Hypnosis?
Weight loss hypnosis is something many people consider to help them shed their excess weight much easier. The question many people ask is does it work and can it work for me?
The answer is a resounding YES!
Hypnosis can work for virtually everyone providing you aren’t psychotic or of a very low intelligence. It feels like you are relaxed and you are generally aware of everything the hypnotist is doing during the session. Some people relax so much that they do not consciously hear what is being said, but you cannot be controlled or manipulated against your will with hypnosis.
The key point to remember with hypnosis is that no one can force you to do anything you don’t want to do, so when you decide to go to a clinical hypnotist it is important that you are willing and ready to lose weight. You’ll be surprised how many people turn up for a hypnosis session and say something like “I don’t really want to lose weight but my girlfriend/boyfriend/mother/husband/wife/dog told me I had to come here.” If that’s your approach then I’m sorry to say you are more than likely wasting your time and money.
However, if you are ready for permanent weight loss easily, then hypnosis will work for you. It is unlikely you will achieve the results you want from a single session. It can happen, though in the majority of cases you will need three to six sessions depending on your individual requirements. Occasionally, it can be more, but if any hypnotist tells you that you have to come for them for more than eight sessions I would strongly recommend you call another hypnotist and get a second opinion.
Of course, seeing a hypnotist in person is not the only solution for you if you want to benefit from weight loss hypnosis. The other options would be to purchase a weight loss hypnosis audio or subliminal program.
These work very similarly to the personal sessions but can be used from the comfort of your own home. All you do is listen to the audio program as instructed and you will find your weight loss goals happening.
Typically a subliminal program requires up to thirty hours of listening for full effect and a spoken hypnosis program around fourteen to twenty eight listens depending on the program. Always make sure you read the instructions and follow them, as the requirements can vary from program to program depending on the technology used.
Hypnosis can help you achieve your weight loss goals and to achieve your ideal weight. If you approach it with the attitude of succeeding with your weight loss then you will get excellent results.
The Quickest Weight Loss System
Stop eating!
Yeah that’s the quickest weight loss system on the planet. Stop eating and your weight will just magically disappear and before you know it you will be a starving, slender shadow of your former self.
Really?
Nope, that is a HUGE lie of epic proportions. It’s not true. It’s blatantly dishonest, and it’s plain old wrong.
The quickest weight loss system has nothing to do with stopping eating. The quickest weight loss system is nothing but a myth. I’m sorry to say that losing weight requires work and effort and that quick weight loss will damage your physical body.
When you stop eating and dramatically reduce your calorie intake, your body reacts in a way it has been programmed to through evolution. As soon as your calorie intake is significantly reduced, your body thinks a famine is coming. This means it starts to store fat and put weight on to ensure you survive the famine.
And storing fat and gaining weight is not what your weight loss program is about, is it?
This is why a lot of people struggle when they start a weight loss program. They cut down their food intake and their body piles on the pounds to survive the famine.
Instead what you need to do is cut down your calorie intake whilst increasing your exercise levels. This will ensure your body burns the fat stored within your body and that you can actually lose weight and keep it off.
It is when you diet and exercise that you really get results from your weight loss program. If you only diet, or if you only exercise, then you will find that your weight loss is not as quick as you may want it to be.
When you begin your weight loss program, it is important that you decide upon an exercise plan that suits you. Not everyone enjoys the gym nor wants to go every day. What forms of exercise do you enjoy and want to do?
Remember, exercise includes walking, climbing the stairs, cleaning the house, going shopping. Anything that keeps you active is classed as exercise. The more ways you can include exercise into your daily routine, the more weight loss you will experience. One of my favorites is taking the stairs instead of the elevator when I am out. This ensures I get some nice free exercise and burn some extra calories.
If you want to experience quick weight loss, then you need to combine a sensible and smart eating program with a workable exercise plan. The two together will ensure you have quick weight loss.