first date

First of all you should compliment her on the way she looks. Tell her things like, she looks fabulous in that outfit, or she has really beautiful hair and how attractive you find her. Women love compliments, so no harm in putting on the charm. She will feel comfortable about her appearance and this should dispel any uneasy feelings she might have been having, after all it is your first date and you hardly know what you think of each others physical appearance except for the fact that you are both obviously attracted to each other.

Talk about family what sort of family does she come from, are there many siblings and where does she fit in, is she in the middle or is she the last child in the family. Women just love to talk about their family and this would be a very relaxing conversation, one that she would feel comfortable indulging in. When she is talking, pay close attention and try and look interested in what she is saying and be responsive at the right time, don't just sit there nodding your head, take part in the conversation, ask questions, share anecdotes about your own family.

Talk about yourself, because she is probably dying to hear all about your life, like where you grew up as a boy, whether you are from a big family, and where do you fit in among your siblings, did you go to College and did you graduate, what was your first job experience, what hobbies do you like and what sort of food do you prefer. Make yourself sound exciting and interesting and she will definitely keep those questions coming at you and might discover that she would really like to see you again, because you are such an interesting person.

Tell her some real funny jokes if you can, if you two are laughing a lot on the first date, she will certainly get the impression that you are really a fun guy to be with. When she asks you a question always try and answer with a follow up question for her, you don't want to come across as a person who just wants to talk about yourself. Ask questions like what sort of food does she like, maybe who is her favorite singer and what sort of songs does she prefer, these are all easy comfortable questions and when the night is over she will definitely leave with the feeling that she has learnt so much about you and this will definitely be the deciding factor as to whether she will say yes to that second date.