David DeAngelo - What David DeAngelo Says Women Hate Most About Men

Insecurity / Neediness

Women absolutely hate men who are not secure with themselves. I shutter whenever I hear a man say “do you like me?”, “what would you rate me out of 10?”, “Am I good in bed?”, “Do you think my penis is big?” The list could literally go on forever. It is truly pathetic. Please stop acting insecure!

Jealousy

Jealousy is a manifestation of insecurity. Men are basically jealous of other men because they feel threatened. A truly high value man would not feel threatened by anyone, regardless of how good looking, rich or powerful they were. You need to assume the attitude “other men only make me look good” and if you follow David DeAngelo’s advice, other men actually will only make you look good. I’d say 95% of guys out there have no clue how to handle women.

Seriousness

Guys who take themselves too seriously are very unattractive to women. It’s basically the one main reason very intelligent men fail with women: they have no sense of humor. You need to start taking life one moment at a time. Work on developing DeAngelo’s unique Cocky/Funny personality and you’ll notice women becoming magnetically attracted to you.

I really don’t want to over hype DeAngelo’s stuff, but I can tell you from personal experience that the Cocky/Funny technique is the one thing that gave me the best results, very fast. Developing a Cocky/Funny personality will shed away the seriousness you harbor within. Women will love it.

Controlling Behavior

Men who demand their girlfriend not do specific things only cause them to want to do it all the more. Guys who demand that their girlfriend not hang out with other men or go to clubs or hang out with her friends are very unattractive. In essence, the forbidden behavior becomes alluring to women and they want to do it all the more.

It’s important that if you have a girlfriend already or when you eventually get one that you not put any handcuffs on her. Don’t ask her where she’s at all the time, who she’s with, get mad at her for checking out some other guy or anything of that nature. Just let her be. Remember that no amount of insecure bitching on your part will change anything. Choose indifference.

Bribery

I see a lot of guys bribing women with gifts and other such gestures. The problem with this is that it comes across as though you’re trying to bribe the women into liking you. It’s basically cheap, ineffective manipulation. You think it’s just you being nice but that’s not how she sees it.

Women want a fun, interesting, playful guy who can turn even the most mundane activity into an adventure with his personality alone. DeAngelo really taught me how to foster and develop that very personality so I didn’t have to buy women gifts just to get them to like me. In fact, he taught me that the very act of buying gifts demonstrated to the women that I was not enough and that I had low self esteem. It truly is interesting how women think.

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