Align Yourself Wth Your Inner Nature for True Dating Success (and personal developmen

"Every living thing must continually seek for the enlargement of its life, because life, in the mere act of living, must increase itself." The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles

Today I would like to talk about aligning yourself with your inner nature. In other words, as long as you are alive you must follow certain properties of life. This is encapsulated by a metaphor in the text from where the above quote is taken, about how a seed once planted, will sprout into a plant and produce hundreds of seeds during it’s life. In other words, life by it’s very nature 'increases itself.' The point is that 1 seed by living creates 100’s like itself and to make yourself aligned with life it is naturally for you to increase yourself.

Unlike plants we have a capacity to create from a mental image to physical reality. So by living we not only have the capacity to create by reproduction but also via mental creation. This mental creation can be applied to yourself for personal development. So in a way, by being alive it is in your very nature to grow and develop and become better and better. Accepting that basic reality about yourself can change your entire self-image to one of 'increase'.

If we approach dating and relationships without being in a mode of ‘increase’ then long-term success is unlikely. For example, if you are not growing as a person then you will probably attract the same in another person and you will have a kinda boring relationship. (Though many people settle for such a situation). If you are not growing and meet someone who is, they will have to leave you and vice versa.

If you maintain an attitude of growth and expansion always being open and positive (in a certain way) then you will eventually attract such a person and dating with such a person in fun & exciting.

This will also lay the foundation for a relationship that grows - making it healthy and satisfying.

"The desire for riches is simply the capacity for larger life seeking fulfillment; every desire is the effort of an unexpressed possibility to come into action. It is power reaching to manifest itself which causes desire. That which makes you want more money is the same as that which makes the plant grow. It is life, seeking fuller expression!"

This little paragraph expresses the idea that as life seeks to increase itself and grow - & wealth is needed to truly experience life – then becoming rich is a necessary part of your growth. Simply by having the desire to be rich you are showing you have the capacity to do so. Because if you didn’t have the ability you would not have the corresponding desire.

In the same way, if you have the desire for fun dating, a good relationship, or meeting a hot person of the opposite ***, then you also have the ability and capacity to get what you want. By this method as described by Wallace Wattles, the desire would not exist – it couldn’t – if you didn’t have the ability to accomplish that desire.

Wallace tells a story of how he saw a little boy getting frustrated while trying to play the piano. He ask this child why he was so flustered and received the reply that the music the kid felt wasn’t coming out on the piano properly…i.e. he already had the capacity to feel and hear the music he sought to play. He just hadn’t yet developed the dexterity between music and fingers to be able to play it. However, he can learn and play well. The desire proves it.

If you approach meeting and dating with the attitude and belief that you will find what you desire and feel grateful for what you are getting before you even get it. With this you are willing to take action to make your desire a reality then you have no choice but to succeed.

Note: The growth principle applied to dating and relationship only works if you want ‘real life, not mere pleasure of sensual gratification,’ Real life involves performing your mental, physical and spiritual functions of culture and your personal development. If all you are seeking is ***, for example, then create a mental image of finding a person who wants the same as you do. That’s what you will find. That is a better way of seduction for *** only than manipulating someone to get what you want.