The 5 Reasons Why Nice Guys Always Finish Last

“Nice Guys Finish last.” I’m sure you’ve heard this saying before, actually I think it could qualify as a modern proverb. So what does it seem like all the women sleep with the jerk/player types and let the nice guys remain friends? Women are illogical creatures. I remember how confused I was back in the day when I was in “love” with one of my friends. She complained about how mean her boyfriend was to her, and there I was wondering to myself why she never considered dating me. Ah I wish I had a fairy godfather back then to tell me what I’m about to tell you.There’s nothing wrong with being nice to women, it’s just that some guys just emit so much unattractive qualities to women that pushes them away.

1. They’re too emotional/clingy/insecure

I think this is the #1 attraction killer right here. Once a nice guy finds a girl he likes he’ll do anything to try and keep her. Understand that the woman is suppose to be the one that’s emotionally attached to you, not the other way around. It’s also very important once she’s attracted to you that you give her some space. If you’re calling all the time how is going to miss you? Also understand that you should never communicate your interest verbally. Don’t tell her you like her, show her you like her.

2. Not physically aggressive enough

Women love being intimate almost as much as guys. The problem is that some guys are worried that the women will be “offended” if they make a physical move. We’re guys, we’re suppose to be the ones in control. Advancing towards her shows her that you’re a confident man that’s not afraid to get what they want.

You have to change your thinking and understand you should try and start trying to be physical with a woman before you enter a relationship.

3. They make women their #1 priority

Women should never be your first priority. The most important person in your world is you. I’ve seen guys waste precious time in the best years of their life chasing women, and in the end they end up with nothing but regrets. Nice guys should always focus on improving themselves by their own standards. Once they get into a habit of self-improvement, then they will naturally become more attractive and get more women.

4. They put women on pedestals

She’s a human just like you. She eats, sleeps, and picks her nose too. Men want to be with good looking women, if not then you’re either lying or you’re gay. But understand that looks is not everything. I would never put up with someone who disrespected me no matter how hot she was.

5. They’re too predictable

He asks her out on a date. He brings flowers. They go eat dinner then watch a movie. He waits until the end of the night to kiss her. He calls her every night.

It’s like the nice guy follows a script and she can predict your every move. Women are bored with their lives. They wake up, go to work/school, go home to watch TV, sleep, repeat. They want you to excite her and take her on an adventure with her emotions.

Don’t get me wrong, nice guys have plenty of great features. Just make sure you’re only showing the positive ones or else you’ll be hearing a lot of “Let’s just be friends.”

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